The No A$$holes Assessment

Lead without leaving wreckage

Your intensity shapes every aspect of your leadership impact.

The No A$$holes Assessment measures how your protective behaviors shape your relationships, specifically how you connect, communicate, and collaborate.

Through precise analysis, we reveal why you’re an asshole, how it shows up, and how to stop wrecking things.

 

Assessment Benefits:

  • Identify the exact triggers that sabotage you and your relationships under pressure

  • Map your anger patterns and entitlement loops to their root causes

  • Spot hidden emotional architecture driving team turnover

  • Transform intensity into influence without losing your edge

  • Rebuild trust and respect with your team

  • Stop being feared and start being followed

 
 

  • It reveals both your visible destructive behaviors and the emotional operating system driving them beneath the surface, exposing the exact triggers, patterns, and protective mechanisms that turn you into an a$$hole—so you can rewire them and lead without wreckage.

  • By revealing your specific triggers and destructive patterns, you can make conscious choices that align with effective leadership rather than reacting from outdated protective behaviors that sabotage your relationships, torch your teams, and destroy your reputation.

  • Lawyers, doctors, and senior leaders who know they're the problem, high-performers tired of burning bridges, and anyone running out of chances with their boss, team, or family.

    This assessment is particularly transformative for those who recognize their intensity is costing them everything—leaders ready to stop white-knuckling their way through, individuals navigating career crises due to their behavior, people watching their relationships implode, or anyone who's been called "difficult," "explosive," or "toxic" and knows it's time to change. It serves as the diagnostic foundation for participants in the You're the A$$hole. Now What? intensive, providing the self-knowledge necessary for rebuilding your emotional operating system and transforming from feared to followed.

  • Your personalized Reconstruction Blueprint provides immediate clarity about your destructive patterns, triggers, and the emotional operating system driving your behavior. The NAA blueprint includes specific, actionable next steps tailored to your unique wiring, enabling you to begin your transformation journey immediately. Real behavioral change takes 6 months of dedicated work, but you'll see shifts in how you show up within weeks.

  • This assessment is part of the Emotional Intelligence 3.0® You're the A$$hole. Now What? intensive. You can apply or get more information here.

Other key info

  • Designed for high-intensity leaders who are tired of being the problem (or everyone else is tired of you being the problem)

  • Goes beyond anger management to rewire the patterns driving your behavior

  • Track your progress by retaking the assessment—celebrate documented proof you're rewiring your emotional system